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Red Ruffled Skirt & Leopard Pumps: The Author Of Your Life

Red ruffled skirt, leopard pumps & white top.

You all know who Matthew McConaughey is, right? He can range from delightfully gorgeous to utterly terrifying depending on the role he plays, but did you know that…

THE STORY

…he is also an amazing motivational speaker? I for one did not until last week. The last day before Thanksgiving break we had a fun day at school. The entire student population was divided into small groups and they moved in 20 minute increments to different activities. I was in charge of the “Inspiration Station”, the premise being I would show a motivational video and then the kids would have a turn and talk discussion about it.

While perusing videos my friend suggested Matthew McConaughey. When I searched him on YouTube a plethora of choices popped up. The video that I chose was amazing. I’m going to share it with you below because it transcends age and the message is a truly important one for all of us.

The actual reason I’m writing this post though is because I wanted to share with you the beautiful things that I saw that day. The kids weren’t grouped with their friends, it was random. That along with the fact that they are middle school students made me a little apprehensive in regard to whether or not they would appreciate and participate in what we were trying to accomplish.

My apprehension proved to be irrelevant. Every single group that came through had excellent discussions. I simply tossed out the question to be discussed and let them go. I moved around the room and only commented myself when something in particular caught my attention. The discussions were thoughtful, they were serious and the kids talked and listened to other kids that otherwise they may have never spoken to. I heard things like, “I didn’t know you were interested in that”, “Wow, that is so cool”, “I didn’t know that about you”. It was truly a beautiful thing to witness.

My most favorite thing that I heard that day, and a discussion that I had to jump in on, was this…the question posed was “What are two or three things that really matter to you?” I heard a 12 year old boy say in all sincerity, “What matters most to me is that I am alive today and that I’m here on this Earth.” That my friends is some powerful stuff and something that we should all think about. It’s also a pretty powerful reminder to never underestimate the wisdom of children.

You certainly don’t have to watch this video, but if you have 5 minutes I definitely recommend it. It is a video that I have bookmarked and will absolutely revisit from time to time as a reminder that I am the author of my life:

THE OUTFIT

I’m still working on using all of my Fall shots, so for now you still get to enjoy the beautiful leaves which of course are long gone by now. I found this gorgeous red ruffled skirt on clearance at H&M way back in June. The color initially drew me in, but the soft drapiness of the fabric is what sold me on it.

I wore it a few times over the Summer although it didn’t make the blog. It’s the perfect amount of lightweight for all year wear. Now that it’s colder outside the addition of tights, boots and a sweater will easily make it Winter ready. The white top is nothing to write home about, but I keep it around because it’s perfect for when I want something simple and basic on top, but I’m not feeling a tee shirt.

The final piece is the leopard pumps. Out of all of my pumps, this pair gets the most love. Because of my ongoing issues with my right foot I can’t go too high when it comes to heels and a solid block heel makes things infinitely more comfortable. The heels on this pair are about a 2 1/2 inch block heel so they are perfect. Since I’ve considered leopard a neutral for years, I pair these with just about anything and they were especially fab with this red ruffled skirt.

THE TIP

If you don’t own a pair of leopard pumps, consider adding a pair to your closet. Heel height and style are up to you, but leopard print just works so well with so many things. Plus, a pair of print shoes is an easy way to try print mixing if you typically shy away from it.

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Skirt: H&M (Similar);  Pumps: Target (Similar);  Top: JCPenney (Similar)

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Nancy
5 years ago

Amen! I am not religieus or so but this was the word that popped into my head after seeing the video! So true! And that voice! I have a crush on MM since seeing that serie with …… Can t remember the name. But it s called True Detectives I believe. It s brilliant!
But I like the phrase: but what s your hill. So many things to think about in this video. Thanks for sharing.

Suzy Turner
5 years ago

I’ve always been a HUGE fan of Matthew McConaughey (I mean, he is totally dreamy most of the time isn’t he? lol) but it was only a few months ago that I discovered he was such an incredible motivational speaker too. I watched this video back then and it really spoke to me. He really is amazing.
And you look gorgeous! What a beautiful outfit – LOVE the skirt. And the pumps are perfect. I really need to get a pair!
Suzy xxx
http://www.suzyturner.com

Patti
5 years ago

Thank you for this, dear Debbie! I had no idea MM was so motivational, in addition to being so beautiful to behold. Lots of lessons here, and lots of eliminating unnecessary stuff from our lives. A happy marriage, one of the things he mentioned, is the foundation of much of my joy. Have a beautiful week ahead, xox.

jodie filogomo
jodie filogomo
5 years ago

I can’t wait to watch this Debbie…I’ll have to wait until my hubby is up so I don’t wake him, but just the title is perfect.
And leopard shoes are the best. I finally just bought some leopard booties and they get worn at least weekly!!
XOXO
Jodie
http://www.jtouchofstyle.com

Jennie
5 years ago

I will definitely be watching this video later today. I already cannot wait! Thank you for sharing.

You look beautiful in this ruffle skirt and bit of lace. Gorgeous fall photos! I really like your leopard pumps, too. I have several pair and always seem to pull out one pair Every Time. Haha!

Angie
5 years ago

Hi, Debbie
I love leopard anything! And I have a question: how did you wear a lace bodice that would ordinarily show bra straps? What did you use for foundation??
Thanks!
Angie, http://www.yourtrueselfblog.com

Cindy Scurry
5 years ago

I loved the video – I sent it to my 2 step-sons (ages 22 and 15). I hope they will really watch it and listen to the message. Thank you for sharing it. I love that red skirt on you – it is perfection!

Paula Holloway
5 years ago

Love the leopard pumps with the red skirt. I recently bought the Sam Edelman’s and I LOVE them.
And as I look out on my winter wonderland, I’m enjoying the last of your fall photos.

Hugs,
Paula
http://www.dimplesonmywhat.com

Kim
Kim
5 years ago

That is so wonderful that you were able to get a group of middle schoolers to communicate in that way. I will take a look at the MM video. //Your skirt has just the right amount of ruffles, I’m looking forward to how else you will be styling it. I have a pair of pumps with a kitten heel, but these days I prefer a block heel, I may buy a new pair–wait for sales–;).

Bettye L Rainwater
5 years ago

I guess I’m in the minority here but MM skeeves me out to no end! Those care commercials he does? I think for Cadillac? I literally cover my eyes and hum when they come on so I don’t have to see or hear him. And I can’t exactly pinpoint what it is about him. I feel like someday we’re going to find out he was the leader of a mass murder cult or something. Everyone else will be shocked but I’ll be like, yep. I knew it all along. Ha. But if you say the video is good I’ll try… Read more »

Nicole at High Latitude Style
5 years ago

The red skirt with the leopard shoes is a great idea! Stunning look! Thanks for sharing!

Amber
5 years ago

I absolutely love red and leopard together! Your outfit is perfect for a fall day!

I hope you are having a great week so far!

Amber

https://www.avecamber.com
https://www.bloglovin.com/avecamber

Jessica A Jannenga
5 years ago

First, I love your outfit. The red and ruffles are up my alley and I love the pairing with the stylish leopard pumps! Great look Debbie. I didn’t know he was a motivational speaker as well, and what an insightful statement the young boy made about being on earth. Im going to watch the video.
thanks for linking!
jess xx
http://www.elegantlydressedandstylish.com

jacqui berry
5 years ago

Something I’d like to wear all the time Debbie, lovely ruffle skirt, and topped off with cute leopard courts – very nice. Thanks for joining the #chicandstylish #linkup too Jacqui Mummabstylish

Ada
Ada
5 years ago

I feel the same way about Matthew McCounghey movies ranging from ugly and bad to amazing and brilliant, but I had no idea he was an inspirational speaker. Thank you for sharing it, Debbie. I am 100% with you that we are the authors of our lives. And your student is right: we should be thankful every day for being alive! Now this outfit, Fall or not, it is amazing. In love with that ruffled asymmetric wrap skirt. I added several wrap skirts to my closet this year and I have worn skirts like yours in a midi length with… Read more »

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