There has always been so much negativity surrounding the idea of getting older…
THE STORY
…although it seems the court of public opinion has been shifting on that lately. I think maybe that’s in part due to the recent proliferation of ad campaigns featuring drop dead gorgeous older women. Perhaps society in general is becoming more open-minded. Whatever the reason, it’s not a bad thing. But I’m not going to lie. I’m not a fan of getting older. I’m not one of those women who embraces her wrinkles, nor do I love the changes in my body both appearance and health wise. All of the things I professed wouldn’t happen to me back when I was full of the arrogance of youth have indeed started happening. Seriously, if you’re anywhere near the age of 50 have you tried sitting on the floor for awhile and then attempted to get up? Yep, that’ll convince you that you’re about a day away from the retirement home. And let’s not forget the joy of applying eyeliner when you can no longer see without glasses; that’s quite the conundrum. All of that aside, there are some pretty great things that I have learned as a result of getting older:
- I view each day as a gift. That comes from realizing that time isn’t something one has in an endless supply.
- Happiness is in the little moments. It’s not some big prize to go chasing after. It’s there every day, you just have to see it.
- There is no room in my life for people who aren’t good to me or for me.
- Drama is ridiculous and unnecessary. Ain’t nobody got time for that.
- A very small group of very good friends is all I need.
- If something needs to be said, say it.
- Most things really aren’t worth stressing over. Be selective in regard to what stresses you out.
- Look for humor wherever you can find it. Nothing beats a good laugh.
THE OUTFIT
I’ve mentioned before that I find it odd when the fashion world gives new names to things (I’m talkin’ to you belt bag/fanny pack) and colors (I say burgundy, you say oxblood). But I have to say I like the name “Serenity”. It really is a fitting name for this shade of blue. And what better piece of clothing for an airy light blue shade than a tulle skirt? A serenity blue tulle skirt? Yes please. I paired it with a simple heather gray men’s v-neck sweater and grounded it with black ankle boots and tights. I tied in a pinch of Rose Quartz as well through the necklace. I’m like a Pantone poster child.
THE TIP
When wearing something super feminine like a tulle skirt, it can be a fun twist to throw in masculine elements like a men’s shirt or sweater. A chunkier shoe or boot (or Converse) also adds an unexpected element and grounds the whole look.
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Skirt: Amazon; Sweater: Old Navy (Similar); Booties: JCPenney (Similar)
