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Teachers Are Humans Too + Snake Print Button Down & Birks

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It’s been a hot minute since I got out my stepladder & climbed up on my soapbox, but today my friends, is the day…

THE STORY

…As always, when I’m posting something that may be viewed as controversial or polarizing, I start with this disclaimer…you might not agree with me & that’s okay. What’s not okay is negativity, snarky comments or general bitchiness. If you are unable to contribute to the discussion in a civilized manner then feel free to move along

Do you all remember that glorious millisecond sometime in April when classroom teachers became veritable gods walking the earth? Parents and (some) government officials were singing our praises in the news, in the streets & where it really matters…on Twitter; finally admitting that what teachers accomplish on the daily is nothing short of incredible? After just days of homeschooling they finally got us. They said they now understood what it takes to wrangle & educate young humans. They said they would have our backs for eternity. They said that they would never take us for granted or bad mouth us ever again.

Ya, that lasted as long as it took for a new school year to roll around.

Now public school teachers are the devil incarnate. How dare we be concerned for our own health & safety as well as the health & safety of our at risk family members? How dare we question why our thoughts, ideas & feelings were not part of the public discourse in regard to how to safely reopen schools? How dare we voice our fears for our own safety when we returned to the classroom? How dare we???

My friends, the bullshit needs to stop. Stop the negativity & nastiness on social media. Try behaving like a mature adult. Stop comparing us to nurses, grocery store workers & first responders. That’s like comparing apples to elephants. Stop telling us if we don’t want to do our job then quit. Trivializing our desire to stay safe & to keep our students safe is demeaning to us & does nothing more than put your ignorance on public display. This has nothing to do with not wanting to do our job.

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Stop making yourself look uneducated by saying “Well, I bet you went grocery shopping during the quarantine, so quit your whining & get back in the classroom, it’s no different.” Have you even seen the inside of a public school classroom any time in this decade?? In the vast majority of schools, classrooms are overcrowded, there’s no semblance of safe ventilation & social distancing is a laughable goal. Stop telling us that we’re lazy & just want to stay home & teach from our computers. I worked harder from this past March until June than I have since I was a new teacher. I absolutely love my kids & want nothing more than to be with them in the classroom, but not if it compromises the safety of all.

By now most public school teachers across the country (with the exception of the many who quit or took early retirement) are back to work in some form or another. We had no say in any of it, nor did we have a choice. Some school systems have chosen to not return to in person learning at all, but many, like the school district where I teach, have chosen to go with a hybrid model. With that being said, allow me to give you a little glimpse into the daily life of a classroom teacher in the age of Covid…

  • From 8:30-1:30 we teach the in-person students. Every class period is approximately 20 minutes shorter than normal so we’re scrambling to get the material covered every single period.
  • Kids can no longer eat breakfast in the cafeteria. They can pick up a to-go bag & eat it in their first period class.
  • The requirements in our state include “social distancing when feasible”. Let me tell you straight up, the way the majority of public school buildings are designed, social distancing in the classroom is not possible.
  • Every classroom has a sign posted at the door telling students to clean their hands each time they enter with a giant (teacher purchased) vat of hand sanitizer sitting on a table by the door.
  • Masks must be worn by teachers and students all day at all times. We have to supply our own masks.
  • The kids are not allowed to share any materials. I bought individual pencil boxes filled with glue sticks, colored pencils, scissors, a calculator & other supplies necessary so that every student had their own.
  • I can’t have my kids come up to the white board to solve problems or play games because I’m the only one who can touch it.
  • No group work at all. Everything must be done individually.
  • Between each class period teachers are responsible for sanitizing all high touch surfaces. We have to supply our own gloves.
  • Kids who buy lunch eat in the cafeteria, packers eat in the gym. That is the one time of day social distancing is possible.
  • The kids are dismissed at 1:30, and at 1:40 we start all over again teaching our distance learners via Google Meet & Google Classroom. I’ve had to purchase, with my own money, a ton of materials that integrate with Google products so that I can effectively teach my distance learners.

Every one of my coworkers and I think it’s safe to say, the majority of public school teachers across the country, are busting our asses (and our bank accounts) to not only get the job done, but to get it done safely & well.

Unless you have walked in our shoes, you have absolutely zero understanding of what goes on in our classrooms, in our heads or in our hearts. We are making the impossible possible every single day.

“We are currently navigating a path that no one has ever traveled before, so don’t act like you have the map.”

We are not lambs to be sacrificed on the altar of politics. We are not the villains in the tragic & surreal reality show that this country has become. We are not the enemy.

So…before you share that nasty anti-teacher Facebook post, before you pass judgement & publicly badmouth your child’s teacher, before you jump on the teacher hater bandwagon…remember this…

We are human beings with hopes & dreams, fears & families. Just like you.

We are figuring this all out as we go along. Just like you.

We love your kids & want what is best for them… Just. Like. You.

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THE OUTFIT

I have a little secret to share with you. Walmart is killin’ it in the men’s department right now. I could go broke snatching up button down shirts, so many fun prints & plaids…there’s definitely something for everyone. That is where I discovered this super cool snake print men’s button down shirt.

This particular outfit, a graphic tank with distressed jeans & Birks, is nothing particularly exciting on it’s own. But throw the snake print button down over top…and now we’ve got a lewk. Sure, had I added my black block heel sandals this would have been a whole lot fancier, but since Birk season is rapidly fading I’m getting in all the wears that I can.

If you’re thinking about braving the men’s department to get some button down goodness for yourself, here are a few of my favorites:

 

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THE TIP

Don’t make the mistake of only sticking to the women’s department when shopping. Get creative, open your mind to other possibilities. Check out the men’s section, juniors & for those of us who are petite, even the girl’s department. These often forgotten spots often have hidden gems that will make the perfect addition to your closet.

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THE LINK UPS

Check out the weekly link ups I participate in for even more fashion and style ideas…

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Shirt: Walmart;  Jeans: American Eagle;  Tank Top: Undercover Hippie;  Sandals: Birkenstock

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jodie filogomo
jodie filogomo
4 years ago

Gosh, luckily I haven’t seen those posts like you’re talking about. But it’s truly the same for everything…walk a mile. Because if you haven’t experienced it, then you don’t know. And every situation is different!!
I would have NEVER guessed that that’s a guy’s shirt!! Yep….I love checking out the girl’s department because they have way cuter things now that I don’t need to be serious all the time.
Hang in there Debbie. There are a world of people that are behind you…just not everyone posts on FB!!
OXOX
Jodie

Marsha Banks
4 years ago

I have been trying to wrap my head around kids and teachers and all of the school staff returning to school. I.Cannot. My daughter works in the facilities department for the local school system (which does a “hybrid” system and the superintendent will never go to e-learning) and worked her a$$ off this summer to ensure teachers, students, and staff had plenty of sanitizer and other ways to stay safe. She planned for social distancing in classrooms for 30 kids. She did everything she possibly could. They have been in school since July 30. There have been quarantines for kids… Read more »

Kimberly F. Malkiewicz
4 years ago

I’ve raided the men’s department for as long as I can remember! Glad you found that fun snakeskin print and Ooo, the tie dye one. I’m so sorry all of these politics are going on in the classroom. I had no idea. I have grandchildren that have started school, but my daughter hasn’t said a whole lot about it, so it must be going okay where she is.

Nancy
4 years ago

Wow, didn’t even think about teachers and how it is for them now. We don’t hear anything about it on the Netherlands. All those rules, pfff, must be hard. I never bought a men’s shirt, don’t think I even borrowed anything from Gerben. Well he weights twice my weight and is 2 metres long so it wouldn’t fit anyway, lol. You look great in that shirt!

Michelle
4 years ago

My mom was an elementary school teacher for 35 years. I hear you. I’m sorry you are being forced to deal with such uneducated drivel, and to risk your life on top of it. There’s been much wrong with the treatment of teachers for years, but this situation is ridiculous.

Michelle
https://mybijoulifeonline.com

Bettye Rainwater
4 years ago

What what?? I guess I’m still under my rock a little bit, I didn’t know people were hating on teachers! WTH?? YOU spend the day in a room w a bunch of…CHILDREN… and all their rule-ignoring, rule-breaking, WHO ME, germ-passing (oh they find ways) ways! But WAIT, there’s more! Buy your OWN lifetime supply of hand sanitizer for everyone to use and individual tools for each student (why aren’t their families supplying these??)! What?? I’m so sorry, Debbie, that anyone is casting aspersions on you or other teachers, that just ain’t right. I admit to not knowing fully all the… Read more »

Karen
Karen
4 years ago

Oh boy can I relate to your story; I retired from teaching 3 years ago after 37 years in the classroom. It must be unspeakably difficult to go back to the classroom with all this mess going on right now. There is just no right way to do any of this; we just have to forge ahead and be as careful as possible. But it’s also not right for people to disparage teachers or anyone on social media. (That’s why I do not have ANY social media accounts- and I don’t miss it!). Please know I empathize/understand/agree with everything you… Read more »

mireille
4 years ago

I really like the “lewk”! I am going to have to try a pair of birks or dupes one day. And I would have never guessed that shirt was from the men’s department. I like to shop the boys department sometimes: I can fit in the XL and prices are cheaper. Thanks for sharing your teaching experience in these times: I haven’t been in the classroom in about 10 years but I do remember buying lots for my classroom and now is much more! My boys are just going from hybrid to full class model and so far our small… Read more »

Amy Christensen
4 years ago

Debbie, I regularly watch my 10 year old grandson, while my daughter goes to school, and works. I am also married to a college professor…so I have seen the work, physical, emotional and mental that teachers are going through, just by observing my hubby and my grandson’s teacher online. The first two weeks they were completely online and every day they had issues with the internet. I feel so bad for all of you teachers and I appreciate all the work you are doing. You are definitely going above and beyond, so thank you for everything you do! It is… Read more »

Shelbee on the Edge
4 years ago

Debbie, first of all, I freaking love this outfit! What an amazing find in the Walmart men’s department! And that graphic tank is so cute, too. You know I am with you all the way on the teacher stuff. It is a struggle all around. I never wanted to homeschool my kids, choosing rather to leave their education in the hands of qualified teachers, so I totally appreciate and respect the job that teachers do because I am simply not good at it. Our district also offered a hybrid model which we opted for. My kids go to school 2… Read more »

ratnamurti
4 years ago

Love the outfit. I cannot even begin to imagine how you teachers are able to handle everything especially during These Times. And now not only all of this extra to manage and pay for, but also no doubt, worried kids. Sounds like extra hours on top of all of the unknown extra hours, too. In New Zealand, every single day, our Prime Minister is on tv regarding the virus and says: be kind. It has become like a mantra here, and it really made a difference. Be Kind to Teachers would be great, methinks.

Marielle
4 years ago

Hey Debbie, Thank you for your service! Our district is still distance learning, but I know there are crazy situations happening everywhere. So thank you. Visiting today from the On the Edge link up. Enjoy your weekend break!! (If you get one. 😉 )

Angie
4 years ago

Hi, Debbie – I’ve always believed that teachers deserve to be highly paid and compensated for the most important work of educating our next generation. Who could deserve more? It has been outrageous the way teachers have been treated in the past decades. My Dad was an artist who became a teacher. In those days, they were treated so much better. It’s truly sad and you are a heroine in my eyes. Thanks for the important work you do – Angie, http://www.yourtrueselfblog.com

Jill
4 years ago

It’s horrible the way teachers are being treated right now. This is uncharted territory for everyone and it floors me that the individuals who are harping on the teachers have no idea what it’s like to walk in your shoes. All of the teachers out there are superheros and doing an amazing job. Hang in there! On another note, I love this look! That top is such a great Walmart find!

Jill – Doused in Pink

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Neti
4 years ago

I’m glad you still have your soapbox and use it well. I am one of those Grandaunts that want Teachers & Parents to have a say in what, where and when our kids get the education they need and require. After all, they have been there, done that and Yes. . we were singing Teachers’ praises a few months ago. What happened? A band aid program by the States is not going to cut it. Until a great plan (which is not in the near future) for in-school classroom is implemented, Teaching our kids should be virtual. My view. .… Read more »

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