Have you ever been ghosted? I know the answer to that question is “yes” without you even responding. How do I know the answer? Because it was me who ghosted you…
SO WHAT’S THE 411?
I’ve been around somewhat on Instagram, but I completely dropped off the radar on the blog & my email list. I really wish I had something good & juicy for you. You know, like I was lounging on my private yacht off of the coast of Greece. Or maybe I was time traveling to save the world from some unnamed impending apocalypse. Or perhaps I was abducted by aliens…terrifying thought maybe, but it would make for a damn good story wouldn’t it?
However probably not surprisingly, I wasn’t doing any of those things.
I was simply being me. Living my life. Doing all the mundane things that life requires us to do. And I just wasn’t feeling like putting myself out there much. I can’t explain why. The desire just wasn’t there.
But…I was also learning, growing, finding the magical moments in the day to day shit & sucking all the juiciness that I could out of my very own version of a big juicy life.
Did some big milestone events happen? Yep. Did some not so great things happen? Yep. Did things happen that hurt. Yep. Were difficult conversations had? Yep again, but that’s okay. It’s okay because in order to fully experience life to it’s fullest sometimes it’s gotta be painful. Sometimes the painful bits are what push us out of our comfort zone. And while it’s true our comfort zones feel good because, well, they’re comfortable, that’s not where the growth happens. Humans are meant to grow & evolve so staying comfortable for too long is never really a good thing.
Hence the reason I’m back. While living my life is for sure important, I was getting too comfortable. As in too comfortable not producing content, not writing & not going after some of the things that really truly matter to me. Trust me, the comfort zone is where dreams go to die. And that became pretty damn uncomfortable.
So here I am easing my way back into your life…finding my groove…gettin’ my mojo back.
And I’m hoping you’re still here for the ride.
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